Starbucks with Song StoneCold: Assets I believe in.

Some of you might remember Song StoneCold's first guest blog here when he had kopi with you. For this guest blog, it is not just any kopi, it is Starbucks kopi. Hope you enjoy this date with Song StoneCold while sipping your kopi latte, kopi cappuccino, kopi mocha frappe etc.:

Song StoneCold says:
Human wants (and even needs) could be unlimited but too bad the cash in my wallet is rather limited.

Last week, I had one of those days when I felt a need to splurge on everything! Stocks, limited edition Batman watch and even a Rolex. I was brought back to Earth after I checked my Big Sweep tickets at the familiar Singapore Pools website. YES! You guessed it! I contributed to Singapore Pools again.

Well, I am not a spendthrift but I am not a penny pincher either. I believe in getting VALUE, buying at a value price. I am an ardent supporter of AK's blog. 

So, before I make any purchase, I will ask myself two questions (which I picked up from a blog post by AK - see related post #2 at the end of this blog):

1. Is this necessary?

2. Is it value for money?

"Simple questions. Always ask these two questions before we buy anything and, in all likelihood, we will be saving more money in future," AK.

Well, I have an additional question that I will ask myself before I "invest" in big ticket items. I like the word "invest" as it sounds very sophisticated! LOL. Besides asking the two questions that I learned from AK, I will ask myself: "Is it an asset or is it a liability?"

As what Robert Kiyosaki said: "Asset can be anything as long as it has value, produces income or appreciates, and has a ready market. Assets put money IN your pocket. Liabilities are defined as things that decrease in value. Liabilities take money OUT of your pocket."

Well my goal is to buy more assets than liabilities. I do buy liabilities too. My car is a liability but I am glad I bought it at a VALUE price. I bought my trusty Lancer Warrior for $38K with 8 years left. For me, it is "no value, no buy" or, as what AK says, "no discount, no buy".

What I consider to be assets can also be slightly different. Besides income generating assets like dividend stocks, I also consider the following as assets:

1) Courses and seminars. I consider attending courses and seminars an asset and I quote Warren Buffett: "The most important investment you can make is in yourself.…The best asset is your own self. You can become to an enormous degree the person you want to be.

"Generally speaking, investing in yourself is the best thing you can do. Anything that improves your own talents; nobody can tax it or take it away from you. They can run up huge deficits and the dollar can become worth far less. You can have all kinds of things happen. But if you’ve got talent yourself, and you’ve maximized your talent, you’ve got a tremendous asset that can return ten-fold."

Learning a skill will increase your market value and it will eventually "put money into your pocket".

Well, I always look for courses and seminars that are of value. Expensive doesn't guarantee that it is good.

2) Charity. Giving creates a feeling of abundance. It makes you feel good and makes you feel that you have more than enough. The main purpose of charity is not to expect any return of fame or accolade. Giving is from the heart and I believe you do not have to announce to the whole world what you have done.

Well, many say that charity will bring you good karma. So effectively, I believe what goes around comes around. One fine day if we are are down, who knows, our good karma might return and tide us through a difficult time. So it may be a good "asset investment" after all.

I shall end with a Warren Buffett quote:

"If you buy things you don't need, you will soon sell things you need."

So, let's spend wisely and buy more assets and less liabilities and live happily ever after! Cheers!

Another guest blog by Song StoneCold:
Getting value out of everything!

Related posts:
1. Counting our blessings.
2. Two questions that build wealth.
3. Robert Kiyosaki: 2 are better than 1.
4. The millionaire next door.
5. Affordability and value for money.

Kopi with Song StoneCold: Getting value out of everything!

Song StoneCold says:
I decided to embark on my path to financial freedom about 5 years ago. So, what inspired me to get started?

I discovered that no matter how hard I worked I would still be a stinking rat in the rat race. Looking at some of my colleagues carrying balls and backstabbing each other just to get a promotion and increment of about $200 bucks truly disgusted me.

Then, I reached a ‘tipping point’ and decided enough was enough! I needed to get out of the rat race!

I started reading thousands of books and attended thousands of seminars. Ok, ok . Maybe just a few hundred books and a few hundred seminars. All these were on investing and financial planning.

To cut a long story short, every single financial planning book advocated living with a budget, recording every single transaction, being frugal and bla bla bla.

Well, some even tell you to forgo Starbucks coffee! Now, imagine the money you can save after the compounding effect! Gosh! 

(AK's comment: Gosh! Talking about me, are you?)

Nevertheless, I decided to give budgeting a try. I tracked every single transaction, everyday. I tried to save money here and there. I was frugal and I seldom bought any luxury items or had a good meal at restaurants. What was the result?

PAIN!

I realized that it was not what I really wanted.

I want to have a decent lifestyle even before I am financially free, not a lifestyle of frugality, not to live by the ‘suffer now and enjoy later’ mantra’. I want to occasionally enjoy my caramel frappacinno at Starbucks!

Something happened 3 years ago that reaffirmed my thinking. My late aunt passed away at the age of 40 leaving behind a large sum of money for my uncle. She had been frugal all her life to the extent of dividing a packet of chicken rice for lunch and dinner.

In short, she tried to save every single cent possible. She didn’t even buy coffee at the neighbourhood coffee shop, much less from Starbucks. Mind you, she was not poor at all. She was earning a decent monthly salary.

In the end, my uncle used all the money and spent it on another woman. My late aunt's pain became his gain. Sad story. Lesson learned for me.

1) No point being too frugal. We need to enjoy life once in a while and use our money wisely 

2) Suffer now and enjoy later may not happen. Life is unpredictable and at any time we may just say bye bye before we can enjoy life. What is the point of being the richest man in the graveyard?

I am not going to splurge on everything but I decided that to keep a balance is the way to go. I need to enjoy my life while building my wealth through investing. Having investments which generate cash flow will give me passive income while growth stocks will give me capital gain. I will enjoy my life NOW and not later.

After some trial and error, I found that to achieve this I just need two simple steps. 

1) Get value out of everything.

2) Just ask.

It is possible to have a decent lifestyle if you make some small efforts. Below are some of the examples of how I managed to have a decent lifestyle

1) I have many credit cards from different banks. Now if you are poor in financial discipline please don’t try this. This is only for people who pay off their bills every single month. There are many ways different credit cards can give you quality perks. 

For example, Citibank Dividend Card not only gives you cashback for everything you spend on, it even gives you FREE travel insurance when you book your flights using the card. It offers you 10 percent cash back for your Starbucks purchases too.

Then, Maybank's Family and Friends’ card offers you 5 percent cash back at Watson and Guardian. These are the places we will spend money at anyway. So, why not get a better deal. Find credit cards that suit your lifestyle and apply for them. Just make sure you pay them in full every month.

2) If you are a bookworm like me. You can borrow books from the public libraries instead of purchasing them. Recently, I discovered that we can borrow ebooks from the library too. It is hassle free and reading ebooks from my iPad feels so good. If you need to buy a physical book, try bookdepository.com. It offers free shipping worldwide. 

(AK's comment: If you do not mind pre-owned books, they are usually cheaper to buy. Betterworldbooks also ships globally for free and every book you buy helps to promote literacy for the poor.)

3) Once in a while, if you decide to buy a luxury item, just wait for a discount. Be patient!

More often than not, there would be a discount in any shop sometime in a year. I usually wait for the Great Singapore Sale to buy the expensive items that I want. Use your credit card during this period and it often offers more discounts and perks.

If you want to attend a concert or seminar, just Google. There will surely be people who are selling their tickets at a lower price because they cannot attend the event due to some reason. Compare prices in shops and Google to check online.

When you are travelling, you can buy items from the transit area of Changi Aiport. I bought my iPad Air there and saved on the GST of 7%. Many shops in Changi Airport in the areas open to everyone offer waivers on GST too. 

These steps will save you tons of dollars while you continue to enjoy your purchases.

4) Car related expenses. I have no loyalty when it comes to petroleum companies. Which company offers the best price will get my business. This could be through some credit card tie-ups or discount coupons, for examples. Sometimes, loyalty doesn’t pay. We need to get value out of everything.

5) You can still watch movies at the cinema but do it during weekdays. It is much cheaper. You could get discounts with some credit cards. One credit card even offers you free popcorn.

6) Eat at your favourite restaurants during lunch instead of dinner. Lunch is generally cheaper. Again use credit cards to get better offers. Try to have only ice water. Drinks are the most marked up items in the menu. They are not worth it.

Next step is to just open your mouth and ask! You will be surprised how much money you can save by just asking for a discount, free samples, annual fee waivers from credit cards etc. There is no harm asking. If we don’t get it, just look for another shop and move on.

There are so many ways and these are just a few.

What I am trying to say is that it is possible to live a good life at discounted prices.

In the stock market, we look for under-valued stocks. Here, we look for under-valued items. One of my favourite quotes from Warren Buffet is this:

"Whether we’re talking about socks or stocks, I like buying quality merchandise when it is marked down." - Warren Buffett.

Let us all enjoy a good life while we build our wealth at the same time.

Related posts:
1. 7 money habits of AK's.
2. Free shipping globally!
3. A modern day good life.
4. To be a happy peasant.
5. How rich is rich?
(... do not forget that being happy is more important than the pursuit of money. If we can be happy every day of our lives, we are truly rich.)