How I was moved by Lucy?

I watched Lucy, the movie, last night.

It was thought provoking and I enjoyed it very much.

Morgan Freeman asked if we humans are too concerned with having instead of being? I like that question.

I asked myself what would I like to be?

Pause.

Pause.

Pause.

I would like to be a person who can make a positive difference to people's lives.

I want to be a good influence.

I think a person like this is good to be.

Of course, whether I will actually be someone like this is harder to say.

Related posts:
1. The kindness of strangers.
(Published in the month of August last year.)

"I feel that if we can make a positive difference in the lives of others, why not? If we can show some consideration to others and make the world a better place, isn't that a good thing?" AK.

2. Another day in paradise.
3. The world is full of nice people.

Should I become a permanent resident (PR)?

I am publishing this in the hope that there are PRs amongst my readers who are willing to share their thoughts on the matter.

From reader:

Hi AK

 

I have been reading your blog for half a year now. It has been my great source of knowledge! Thank you for wonderful blog!

 

I have some questions on whether I should apply for PR. Here is my background. I have been in Singapore for 10 years. Started off as student at secondary 3 then JC and university. I have been working for nearly 2 years now. Still holding an EP. My friends and colleagues often ask me if I would apply for PR. My answer to them so far is no. The main reasons are I still do not see myself living here permanently. The high costs of house and car are the main factors as well. Nonetheless, I may end up living here if there is great opportunity ahead, plus I have pretty much adapted to life here.

Also, the benefits of PR, of course, is CPF contribution from employer but I also do not like the idea of monthly contribution while I am still uncertain of living here or not. I know that I can take all CPF back if, in the end, I discard my PR but again, there is no second chance if I drop my PR. Short-term wise, I see myself here in the next few years. Should I then apply for PR?

 

If it does not trouble you so much, I'd like to seek your advice or opinion on this matter. Thank you for reading this.

Regards,
C
 

Share a thoughtful moment?

My reply:

Hi C,

I cannot give you any advice but I can share with you how I might think if I were in your shoes.

Being a PR has quite a few advantages compared to being an EP holder, as you have rightly pointed out. I would simply ask myself whether those advantages are important and attractive enough for me to want to be a PR. If they are, then, I should apply to be a PR and pray that I am successful.

There is a big element of subjectivity in making this decision, of course. So, only you know if this is something you want to do.

Best wishes,
AK

Please leave your thoughts in the comments section for C. Thank you.