I have heart to heart "talks" with readers sometimes and those whom I have "talked" to know that the conversations could last an hour or more sometimes.
Although I am not a financial planner nor a trained counsellor, I try my best to put things in perspective for everyone and, hopefully, throw some light on issues.
I know that Singapore can be a bit of a figurative pressure cooker sometimes and a topic that is evergreen in our very green garden city has the same color.
Green is the color of money or so they say.
Yes, the topic is "money".
There are more than a few readers who have, in the past, left me comments, sent me emails and chatted with me in FB who told me that they want to be like me.
They want to achieve financial freedom.
However, they think it is really hard to do so in just 20 years which is more or less the time I have taken to do the same.
Some readers even told me that although they are inspired by my blog, they also feel some depression at the same time.
This, of course, is not what I want to achieve through my blogging efforts.
If this is what my blog is doing to people, then, I should stop blogging.
Not too long ago, I had a chat with another reader in FB and I think that a few "bubbles" from me neatly encapsulate what I want to say to readers who are
1. married with children,
2. who make above average salaries,
3. who have a mortgage to service
and
4. a car to maintain.
Here it is:
I keep saying that all of us have difference circumstances in life.
We might make very different choices in life and with those choices, there are pluses and minuses.
We must make the best of our situations and, if possible, improve on our situations.
Incidentally, I believe that it is almost always possible to improve on our situations.
More often than not, it depends on how badly we want things to change.
So, some might take 20 years, some might take less than 10 years and some might take 40 years or, maybe, more.
The important thing is that we all get there in the end or at least try our very best to do so.
Anyone who is diligently working towards financial freedom in a responsible manner is, in my opinion, already a winner and we should never forget that.
Related post:
Journey to financial freedom is not a race.