Whether we like it or not, many things in life have to be measured. However, it gets rather irksome when people want to measure us against others.
If you get the feeling that AK is going to be ranting in this blog post, you are right!
My school results were measured against my cousins' all the time, I remember.
When I was a bit older, I told my mom and my aunts very firmly that I didn't like that. They stopped.
I think it was more fun for them than it was for me.
Now, for investments, it is the same thing. For some people, is not enough that we do well, we must be the best.
Why do some people get so fixated with measuring and comparing everything?
"Wah, you are short! I am long!"
(Hey, I am talking about positions lah. Think straight hor. Huh? What do you mean 64 positions? Aiyoh, I don't know what you are talking about.)
Anyway, it gets so tiring sometimes that I wish I do not hear or read anything like this for a long time.
It just gets quite pervasive at times.
I have been asked by some people on and off to give more details regarding my portfolio so that they can decide if I am beating some benchmark.
What benchmark?
The only marks I know on benches are graffiti in the public parks which might include the odd phone number offering some services by some people.
Huh? Financial services?
You say leh?
When I politely declined (for the umpteenth time), some people asked,
"How would I know if you are worth following if I don't know?"
Wah! WAH! WAH!!!!!
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Hey, bro. Here are a few things I don't mind revealing:
1. Don't follow me.
I have this fear of stalkers. I don't know why. I am just so scared of being stalked.
2. My investments might beat the index or they might not. I don't really care.
All I care about is getting in with a margin of safety and having a dividend yield that makes sense.
OK, sometimes, I get a little adventurous but I try to make sure that the occasional misadventure will not kill me. Yes, what I do care about is not losing money overall.
3. I never claim to be an expert or a guru.
I am just a regular retail investor who got lucky quite regularly (I will admit). I say this all the time. There are some people who believe me and although not all are polite about it, I have no doubt that they are all clever chaps.
4. I am not very clever at spotting growth in companies.
I can't seem to see very clearly what is in the future. I don't think anyone can guarantee growth. So, I rather get my hands on something which is more or less guaranteed, trying to avoid being stung at the same time.
5. The only person you should really follow is yourself. Know yourself. Know your temperament. Know your aptitude.
You could be good at some forms of investment. Then, just stick to these. If you want to be the best in the field, well, go ahead. Just, please, don't think that I feel the same way and that I have to be the best too.
OK, now I have a blog post I can direct some people to in future.
Related posts:
1. Motivations and methods in investing.
2. Market gyrations, my portfolio and a sabbatical.