Reader:
AK replies:
Hi,
I can understand your situation and this is something that I have blogged about too.
"I was taught that if we should lend someone money, we must do it with the mindset of a donor."
See:
http://singaporeanstocksinvestor.blogspot.sg/2013/01/the-difference-between-lending-and.html
Of course, there are always reasons which I find more acceptable and in those instances, I am prepared to part with some money. Yes, the operative word here is "part".
"Imagine that the money has vaporised and gone to a better place. If it should come back one day, well, go celebrate!"
See:
http://singaporeanstocksinvestor.blogspot.sg/2013/10/lending-money-to-someone-you-care-about.html
Sometimes, for legitimate reasons, people need a helping hand and if they are people who matter to me, I will help. :)
Best wishes,
AK