For those of you who follow me in my YouTube channel, you would know that something unfortunate happened recently to my father.
So, I expect to have less time for social media.
I have also been told that I would have to be prepared for another $20,000 or so in annual medical expenses for my father.
This revelation came after I had a talk with my mother regarding her medical insurance coverage.
I decided that she should not downgrade her medical insurance coverage as we really don't know if we might be hit by large hospitalization bills in future.
This covers her preference for Class A ward if she should be hospitalized.
I have calculated that if she should be blessed with a long life, her coverage, including a rider, would amount to $20,000 per year from age 99.
Now, it is about half of that but it will increase every 2 years till age 100.
I will be paying for her.
I did an update last year on my expenses about how I need at least $136,000 a year.
Now that I must set aside another $30,000 per year, increasing to $40,000 per year over time, I would need at least $166,000 to $176,000 a year in passive income to cover everything.
I won't have as much surplus money to invest with.
Well, I haven't been doing much investing in recent months apart from parking more money in T-bills.
So, no big deal, I guess.
Then, we also have the recent speech by Alvin Tan in Parliament on financial influencers in Singapore.
They must be licensed and regulated.
See: The Straits Times.
That got me thinking.
Together with all the things which have happened recently in my life, I really don't need more stuff to worry about.
Blogging and, now, YouTube video making, are hobbies to me.
Hobbies must be enjoyable and not make me worry.
I thought of giving up these hobbies but I still enjoy them.
I also like interacting with most of my readers and viewers as I think most of them are nice people and they also understand that I am not giving financial advice.
Unfortunately, doing what I do, it is too easy for my content to be misconstrued.
Like I have said many times before, I am not running a blog or YouTube channel as a business.
If I do them for a living, then, I would not mind the hassle of being licensed and regulated.
At this stage of my life, I just want to have more fun and have less to worry about.
So, what am I going to do?
For my own sanity, I have decided to have a compromise.
I will continue to blog and make YouTube videos but only on a quarterly basis.
This would be for the usual quarterly portfolio updates where I talk about what I have done to my investment portfolio and how it has performed.
This should be pretty safe from being misconstrued as financial advice.
Depending on how things go, this could morph into a bi-monthly or monthly update but that is up in the air for now.
Going to be rather unlikely, I feel.
Why?
With all the additional expenses I am saddling myself with, I doubt there would be much happening on the investment front as I have less surplus cash to invest with.
A bit overwhelming?
No one expected these developments but things happen.
I am sure there are many people who will continue blogging and making YouTube videos in this space.
Money is an important topic, after all.
So, with many more content creators in this space than there were when I started this blog 15 years ago, I am sure my leaving isn't a big deal.
I will end this blog by saying that we should always remember what Warren Buffett said before.
"Never ask barbers if we need a haircut."
Also remember that no one cares more about our money than we do.
If AK can do it, so can you!
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22 comments:
Hi AK, so sorry to hear about the health news. I sincerely hope and wish that things will be smooth-going and relatively painless for you and your family as much as possible. Please take care of yourself physically and mentally that is most important rather than making updates. All your previous posts especially the evergreen posts are timeless advice that will be found by people when they are ready for them. When the student is ready, the teacher appears. I have truly benefited from your generous and wise sharing many years ago to reap the fruits now (the peace of mind is simply priceless) and I just want to express my gratitude to you again. Thank you! Please take care and keep well!
Hi Stars and Skies,
Thank you for the encouraging comment.
Means a lot to me in these trying times.😷
Made me a little teary when I read how you have found my blog helpful over the years.
Doing something I enjoy and that something is in turn helpful to people.
This is the most satisfying result I could have hoped for.🥇
Wishing you the best too. 😊
Hi AK,
Sorry to hear about your dad. I totally understand what you are going through. I am taking care of my 96 yo mom's medical expenses. Remember to take care of yourself too.
I also share your concern about being misconstrued when we blog on personal finance matters and investment. I shared my concerns in my blog post here : https://t.me/CPF_Tree/3544
I did think about stopping my blogging too. But its my hobby and I still enjoy writing. Maybe I should go find a new hobby.
Hi AK, sad to hear that about your father. Wish you and your family all the best. Just want to say thanks for all your talking to yourself. It's very clear that it comes from a good place. Very glad that I stumbled upon your blog when I first started working 10 years ago and it got me started on my FIRE journey. That has made all the difference. If AK can do it, so can I! Take care bro.
Hi AK, I have been a passive reader/viewer for more than 10 years. I just want to share that your insights and talks to yourself have helped to shape my own philosophies on life and financial activities. At age 40+ now, I would say that I am leading quite a comfortable (not wealthy) life with sufficient passive income to ensure my family will not be severely affected even if I lose my job, and reading your blogs since the start of my career played a big part in this.
I am so sorry to hear about your challenges, and hope that my gratitude can help ease some of the pressures you feel. I really hope to continue to get to hear you talk to yourself more often. The plan to license finfluencers should not affect you if you do not get compensated for your videos. "Posting of general educational content is not financial advice"
Hi AK, sorry to hear that, that must be a lot to dealt with. Hope all be blessed and take good care. Your unbelievable journey sharing is just like a beacon light in me, layman financial world. Very much thank you!
Hi AK, even superheroes need a rest. Hope to see you back in action soon. Like Stars and Skies, I have learnt much from your talking to yourself. Take good care while balancing family and other priorities.
I think the comment made in Parliament is quite disappointing. Is not like masses have a lot of good advises from regulated FA. Basically none since is a pull approach. This is going to make life more difficult on average to people just to protect a few ignorants. Instead of playing safe in speech, he needs to provide credible alternative for masses.
Hi AK, saw your post about the recent difficulties faced by your family. Hope that your dad's condition will improve soon!
On the finfluencers topic, I guess don't have to be too worried. I am sure the government will prefer to have you in the space to provide education to the general public. I don't think talking to yourself will be seen as giving financial advice!
Hi AK, I have been reading your blog and from time to time listening to your YouTube videos. your voice and thoughts will be missed but I am happy that I will still be getting updates from you from time to time. I dunno what the concerns are about people talking to themselves really.. and wish that you (and many others) could still continue the hobbies you enjoy without worries. I hope that your family will be healthy and enjoy many happy moments together! take care!
Hi MSI,
Thank you for the kind words. :)
Well, you know what they say about change being the only constant in life.
All things come to an end one day, good or bad.
If a hobby becomes a problem, then, it is time to throw it out.
Not easy to do, I know but the alternative is to deal with the problem which I know I would hate even more.
As for caring for aged parents, a problem I find more frustrating to deal with is relationship or behavioral problem.
Any problem that can be solved with money isn't insurmountable to me.
Relationship or behavioral issues are much worse...
Hi owq,
Thank you for the kind words. :)
Unfortunately, my dad's worsening health is a long term issue.
Unlikely to recover and all we can do is to manage it.
Going in and out of hospitals takes a lot of time and energy not just for him but for me as well.
He didn't care about leading a healthy lifestyle and is now paying the price. :(
In the past, I have said about not blogging or making videos anymore and some people said I was crying wolf.
Well, it seems that I have a very strong combination of push factors this time.
Depending on how things go, I could produce more content again one day.
Crossing fingers.
Hi Gordee,
Thank you very much for your kind words. :)
"General educational content" is really open to interpretation and I am pretty sure that if people rationalize it enough, plenty could be seen as "financial advice."
This is especially true when I talk to myself about specific products or stocks.
Unless I present the facts only and leave out my opinions, the content could easily be seen as "financial advice."
If I should do this, it would be like any news portal...
As for compensation, my blog and, more recently, YouTube channel are hosted by Google and monetized through AdSense.
So, I do get some pocket money from the ads shown to readers and viewers.
I am not sure that disclaimers in my blog and YouTube channel are enough to shield me.
Best to avoid trouble, especially when my plate is so full now. :(
Hi Sid,
Thank you for the kind words. :)
A lot to deal with now and more to deal with in time to come.
I can see it unfolding in my mind...
Well, I am glad that I have been able to share my journey and I am also glad that many have been able to go on the same journey with me. :)
Hi Yv,
Thank you for the kind words. :)
Unfortunately, this time, it is different.
Very hard to balance this time.
Priority is heavily tilted towards family this time.
If I did not go ahead with the plan for "Evening With AK 2025" when I did, I probably would not do it now as it isn't a priority to me like it was then.
Well, crossing fingers.
Hi Cory,
You are one of the people who saw me starting 15 years ago as a blogger. ;p
I don't know how many of us old timers are still around but there are so many new local content creators in this space.
So, people still have plenty of content they can consume, whether licensed and regulated or not.
This might not be politically correct but I am going to say that most people are ignorant and in need of protection.
We just have to see the number of people and the amount of money that is being scammed year after year.
This is despite the warnings that have been issued year after year by the authorities.
What to do?
I don't have the time nor the energy to deal with being licensed and regulated.
I am fortunate that at least I still have a choice.
So, not complaining. ;)
Hi Boon Tee,
Thank you for the kind words. :)
Unfortunately, it is unlikely that my dad's condition is going to improve.
It would only get worse and all we can do is to manage it.
Long term medical care is required plus many other issues.
He isn't the most organized nor is he a wise person in so many things.
Crossing fingers.
Well, I am not upset with what Alvin Tan said in Parliament regarding financial influencers.
I might even be grateful because he has given me the final nudge to look at what I am doing in this space more closely and to decide if I need to make some changes.
He is doing what he does in Parliament for a living.
I am doing what I do in my blog and YouTube channel for fun.
Big difference. ;)
Hi gagmewithaspoon,
Thank you so much for your kind words. :)
For sure, I would like to continue talking to myself here in the blog as well as in my YouTube channel from time to time.
I would just have to be more careful with what I say.
Crossing fingers. ;)
Aye....as we grow older, health becomes a primary concern, especially when it comes to aging folks. With the expected average increase of 22% in CPF MediShield Life premiums over the next three years, I also need to review my folks’ current medical coverage. Likely will need to top up the medisave account with some $$$, I doubt the subsidies provided will be sufficient.
Hi AK, thank you for all your sharing through "talking to yourself". I have gained alot through your sharing (esp on CPF which changes my perspective) and have reached the FRS at 37. I wished I have came across your blog much sooner. Hope that everything will be good on your side. Meanwhile hope to still see you in action In the YouTube community tab where you share about your daily life and good food bargains.
Hi TDT,
Always a good idea to have a buffer or two in place.
At least the Medisave Account gets paid an interest rate of 4% per annum.
Get income tax relief for top ups at the same time.
Sounds good to me. :)
Hi OH,
Thanks for the kind words. :)
FRS at 37 years old is pretty good, I feel.
You have almost 20 years before you reach 55 and that is plenty of time to compound your retirement safety net nicely.
Coincidentally, I just posted something in my YT community regarding this.
If AK can do it, so can you! :D
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