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HDB flat is 37 years old and son is only 8.

Monday, April 17, 2017

Reader says:
Good morning AK!
I am your avid follower since I attended the Tea with AK session some time back.
Have started my retirement planning since.

My wife n I have this HDB lease concern. Flat is 37 yr old (and my son is only 8). Recently Lawrence Wong brought it up again. My wife want to sell and buy new flat in Seng kang. New lease 99 years so that can give my son and also preserve the value but I don't think it is a good idea. From mature to non mature estate. How ah? Appreciate your advice .

AK says:
It depends on what matters more to you. 🙂
Location or legacy? 😉


http://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/housing/to-buy-an-old-hdb-flat-or-not-that-is-the-question

Of course, this is not a new topic in my blog. Newer readers of ASSI who are interested might want to read the related posts below.

Related posts:
1. Resale flat or BTO in Bidadari?

2. Purchasing HDB flat new or old?
3. Buy 99 years leasehold or freehold?
"As many people have observed, owners of 40-year-old flats may find it harder to offload their homes to new buyers now, as people become more aware of the risks involved in taking on a home with a fading lease. "
Source: The Straits Times

Lending money to family and friends?

Sunday, April 16, 2017

Reader:

Dear AK,

What do you do when people borrow money from you?

Everytime a friend called to borrow some money, I will always remind myself that many years ago I also seek help, a friend lend me a few thousands dollars. I worked hard and repay. So whenever friends seek help, I help them.

After a while, I found that most are unable to pay back... Actually, one of them even bought a few property investments later but did not return money he borrowed from me. It has become difficult for me.

Last week, a friend want to borrow 1K. He is fed up that for only 1K, I ask this ask that... So, I told him that I am financially tight and unable to lend him money.




AK replies:

Hi,

I can understand your situation and this is something that I have blogged about too.

"I was taught that if we should lend someone money, we must do it with the mindset of a donor."
See:
http://singaporeanstocksinvestor.blogspot.sg/2013/01/the-difference-between-lending-and.html

Of course, there are always reasons which I find more acceptable and in those instances, I am prepared to part with some money. Yes, the operative word here is "part".

"Imagine that the money has vaporised and gone to a better place. If it should come back one day, well, go celebrate!"
See:
http://singaporeanstocksinvestor.blogspot.sg/2013/10/lending-money-to-someone-you-care-about.html

Sometimes, for legitimate reasons, people need a helping hand and if they are people who matter to me, I will help. :)

Best wishes,
AK


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